“Sexual compatibility is to a man what perfume is to a flower in a Garden”
I will begin a series of teachings on the subject of SEX in marriage from today. So many have asked me alot of questions in regard to sexual fulfilment which is lacking in their marriages. Yesterday, a young woman came to my office and said, "Pastor, I have no sexual feeling for my husband. Each time he touches me, it irritates and during coition I felt pain". There are so many other couples out there who are facing similar problems and lack where to go for counselling. I am here to help you by the grace of God.
“And Adam KNEW Eve his wife; and she conceived…” Gen. 4 v 1
Sex is not merely the joining of organs, is much more than that. The Biblical word for sexual intercourse is “to know”. A man and wife are to “know” each other in the depths of their being. The word “know” comes from the Greek ginosko frequently indicates a relation between the person “knowing” and the object “known”, in this respect, what is “known” is of value to the one who knows, and hence the establishment of the relationship.
Thinking about your lover on a regular basis is what prompted the brain to release chemicals that are a crucial bonding agent in lovemaking. But whenever your brain STOP THINKING about your partner because of their shortcomings or what you disliked in them before marriage and now it is resurfacing, you will begin to unconsciously SUPPRESS (block out, hold back, repress, stifle, restrain) your ability to respond to sex.
When your sexual responses are blocked out as a woman, any slight touch by your husband will irritates you and all the sensitive erotic parts of your body (e.g Nipples, Clitoris, Tongue, Ear and etc) will become painful. And when its the man's sexuality that is blocked out, his penis will become weak and he will start suffering from "Impartial Impotency".
Catch up with me tomorrow in this group. I will be talking about the "Bonding Chemicals"and how to reactivate them so that you will begin to enjoy sex with your partner.
Sex is not merely the joining of organs, is much more than that. The Biblical word for sexual intercourse is “to know”. A man and wife are to “know” each other in the depths of their being. The word “know” comes from the Greek ginosko frequently indicates a relation between the person “knowing” and the object “known”, in this respect, what is “known” is of value to the one who knows, and hence the establishment of the relationship.
Thinking about your lover on a regular basis is what prompted the brain to release chemicals that are a crucial bonding agent in lovemaking. But whenever your brain STOP THINKING about your partner because of their shortcomings or what you disliked in them before marriage and now it is resurfacing, you will begin to unconsciously SUPPRESS (block out, hold back, repress, stifle, restrain) your ability to respond to sex.
When your sexual responses are blocked out as a woman, any slight touch by your husband will irritates you and all the sensitive erotic parts of your body (e.g Nipples, Clitoris, Tongue, Ear and etc) will become painful. And when its the man's sexuality that is blocked out, his penis will become weak and he will start suffering from "Impartial Impotency".
Catch up with me tomorrow in this group. I will be talking about the "Bonding Chemicals"and how to reactivate them so that you will begin to enjoy sex with your partner.
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