Justin thought he was in love with three different girls at the same time!
Karen was a member of his church and they saw each other often at church services. There was something different about this girl! She was completely sold out to her Lord and totally unselfish—always thinking of other people. When Justin was with her, he thought big thoughts and dreamed big dreams. He felt inspired to go out and do things for others and for his Lord.
Then there was Sandra. She lived next door and Justin had grown up with her. He could talk over anything with Sandra. She was a good sport and fun to be with. Best of all, she really understood him. When he needed advice or wanted to talk over some problem, Justin headed straight for Sandra. Though he cared deeply for her, Justin had never kissed her. In fact, he had never even felt like it. His love for Sandra was that of a friend.
The third girl in Justin’s life was Linda. She was a real knockout! She not only had a beautiful face, but she also had a lovely figure. Justin felt proud when he escorted Linda to a party. But when they were out on a date, Justin couldn’t think of much to discuss with Linda. The attraction was mostly physical. He feel like having sex with her.
Justin’s three “loves” illustrate the fact that there are different kinds of love. Are you in love with a lady? What type of love do you have for her? Choose wisely!
Neither of the three ladies are good for Justin. His three “loves” illustrate the fact that there are different kinds of love: Agape Love, Friendship Love and Sexual Love.
Which of these three do you think are most needed in a happy, successful marriage? The answer is all three! It is like a three-legged stool—you need all three legs to keep it from falling! The right partner you need most have these three components.
However, it is very important that these three kinds of love come together in the right order. First, for a happy and successful marriage, you must have agape love—the unselfish love which desires the best for the other person. Then you need friendship love—the love that enables a husband and wife to enjoy being together.
Finally, in a happy marriage there is satisfying sexual love. If he marry Karen, he will lack friendship and sex. If he marry Sandra, there will be no agape (fear and love of God) and sexual fulfilment. If he marry Linda, he will lack agape and friendship but he will enjoy sex. So, the three loves are needed in marriage. Go for the lady that has the three ingridients.
The third girl in Justin’s life was Linda. She was a real knockout! She not only had a beautiful face, but she also had a lovely figure. Justin felt proud when he escorted Linda to a party. But when they were out on a date, Justin couldn’t think of much to discuss with Linda. The attraction was mostly physical. He feel like having sex with her.
Justin’s three “loves” illustrate the fact that there are different kinds of love. Are you in love with a lady? What type of love do you have for her? Choose wisely!
Neither of the three ladies are good for Justin. His three “loves” illustrate the fact that there are different kinds of love: Agape Love, Friendship Love and Sexual Love.
Which of these three do you think are most needed in a happy, successful marriage? The answer is all three! It is like a three-legged stool—you need all three legs to keep it from falling! The right partner you need most have these three components.
However, it is very important that these three kinds of love come together in the right order. First, for a happy and successful marriage, you must have agape love—the unselfish love which desires the best for the other person. Then you need friendship love—the love that enables a husband and wife to enjoy being together.
Finally, in a happy marriage there is satisfying sexual love. If he marry Karen, he will lack friendship and sex. If he marry Sandra, there will be no agape (fear and love of God) and sexual fulfilment. If he marry Linda, he will lack agape and friendship but he will enjoy sex. So, the three loves are needed in marriage. Go for the lady that has the three ingridients.
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