HOW TO BOOST YOUR WIFE'S LIBIDO:

What an agony! The more he tries to entice his wife to be better in bed, the colder she is likely to get with his own needs screaming within, feel frustrated. Despite her husband’s best intentions, the wife could soon end up feeling devastated, imagining he married her simply because he wanted a legal prostitute or SEX MACHINE.

The shocking truth is that the most common reason for female frigidity is that their men are not the great lovers they imagine themselves to be.
As plants can flower only under the right conditions, so a normal woman can reach the pinnacle of sexual passion only if she feels loved, valued, secured, relaxed and physically refreshed.

When a man tries to overcome his wife’s sexual inhibitions by focusing on the physical, she slips from feeling secure and relax to feeling pressured to perform. She slumps from feeling valued as a person to feeling reduced to a toy. Under the devastation of this emotionally crippling insult, her sexual passion dries up. On the other hand, if she is loved, honoured and cherished, her yearning to sexually thrill him will sky rocket.

Your wife’s passion is the culmination of all the feelings you have generated within her. If she is cold in bed, it is usually because the way she is treated outside of bed has left her cold.

When a husband does little to make his wife feel valued except when he wants his sexual needs met, acting like that will not prevent him from being a miserable failure as a lover. A woman’s hearing fails if the only time she hears “I love you”, is during foreplay. To her, the word end up sounding remarkably like, “I love conning you into serving my needs only”. And you are beautiful, like “all I care about is using your body as something to masturbate inside of”.

If how you treat your wife on bed is inconsistent with how you treat her the rest of the time, your attempts to arouse her will affirm not your lovemaking skill but your hypocrisy. Under these circumstances your failure to sexually arouse her would prove not her frigidity but her intelligence.