SLAY QUEENS: THE DEADLY TRAPS:

Have you heard the term "slay queen"? There are many ladies regarded as slay queens. Who are they?

In layman's language, a slay queen is a woman who wants to choke everyone else with how beautiful they feel they are and how they do their “cool stuff”, not forgetting their blond opinions! They are ladies using their beauties and expensive lifestyle to seduce rich men.

When you see a Slay Queen you see a beauty with a taste for expensive designer clothes. When a Slay Queen sees you, she sees a fool who will pay for her taste for expensive designer clothes that she can’t afford.

Ask yourself how many Slay Queens you have seen with broke guys. When you get the answer, you will realize that Slay Queens are not into guys. They are into money. They are not heterosexual or homosexual. They are money-sexual.

Even the Bible warns against Slay Queens. “I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains. The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare”-Ecclesiastes 7:26

A friend has been dating a slay queen for some weeks now, he likes her but the bill for her upkeep keeps going up with each passing day. Lately, she asked for a birthday vacation in Zanzibar. The man has even never acquired a passport and he is dating a girl who dreams of a weekend at an island outside Kenya. To make it more interesting, she went ahead and posted it on her social media, “Barry is taking me to Zanzi for my birth day". Her numerous friends reacted with “wow,” “OMG” and many such exclamations. Now poor man is puzzled. He has just realized that his marriage plans will just bore this girl. First, she is not willing to give up her figure for child bearing; her manicured nails are not the kind to be covered in charcoal in an effort to make dinner. In simple terms, she is just a girl who believes her imaginary parents live in a palace. So my dear brother, if you do not have millions stashed away under your bed, do not bother the slay queens. There are numerous girls who can make a wife and mother for your children. A slay queen might do the same but until she gets over the ‘slay queen’ mentality, I suggest you watch her from a distance and let her outgrow that chapter of her life.

There are two types of ladies: the SLAY QUEENS AND THE REAL QUEENS.

A slay queen checks what a man drive.

A real queen check what drives a man.

A slay queen want to know where you are coming from.

A real queen wants to know where you are going.

A slay queen wants to know where you live

A real queen wants to know what lives in you.

A slay queen want to know the size of your television.

A real queen wants to know the size of your vision, so that she can ask “can my substance match with his vision”

A SLAY QUEEN IS a GOLD DIGGER but a REAL QUEEN is A GOLD CAREER.

The problem however is that we don't have too many REAL KINGS, like Lemuel in Proverbs 31. The kings littered everywhere these days do not fit into the category of REAL KINGS. After living a visionless life that is not going anywhere but taking pleasures of the world, they would now want to associate with the REAL QUEENS. It would have been better if they mingle with their kinds because a REAL QUEEN is looking for what drives you and what is inside you not what you drive or what you have outside you. May God in His mercy raise REAL KINGS in our generation again. There are still REAL KINGS now but they are very few and because of that the REAL QUEENS now choose to yoke with these easy kings of low virtue void of the fear of God.

If you are a REAL QUEEN, it is better to remain single than yoke yourself with an easy king who has no vision and only desires worldly pleasures. I think they should be better of with slay Queens.

MY DAUGHTERS, DON'T BE SLAY QUEENS

The first slay queen in the Bible History was Delilah, followed by Jezebel. Then came Queen Vashti and Herodias was followed later. Guess what? None of these slayers ended up well because their lives displeased God. But take a very critical look at the pray queens like: Sarah, Ruth, Deborah, Hannah, Esther, Abigail, Mary, Elizabeth, Dorcas, Priscilla and others. These people all ended up well because their lives pleased God. My beloved daughters, never be intimidated, carried away or envious of these slay queens with their flashy and hypocritical life-styles they live on social media. Just go close to them and see their secret lives off social media. Some of them are real time big beggars. Some of them sell their bodies for money. (Run girls). They claim to be high class girls while they are not. Do you know what? Their Master the Devil is very busy preparing them for flash. But God is preparing you to shine. Remember that the flash on your mobile phone is bright for short period of time but the sun shine rays provides a permanent shine.

Be a pray queen of asset and not a slay queen of liability.

#Be real

#Be valiant

#Be yourself

#Be virtuous