How you feel right now about your spouse reflects how you have been thinking about him/her. You will never feel better about someone than how you think about them. Your feelings follow your thinking. It is a lie that how you feel about someone today is due to how they have treated you or what they have said to you. Feelings cannot control us or motivate our behavior without our thoughts dwelling and meditating upon that which we have feelings toward. You cannot feel what you do not think. Feelings and behavior follow our thinking.
Married couples do not grow apart without first growing apart in their thought life. Couples do not just fall out of love without first falling short in loving each other with their thoughts. The moment you entertain negative thoughts, negative feelings will follow. Negative feelings cannot come without negative thoughts. It is true that you may not be able to control what others say and do, BUT you can indeed control how you think in such circumstances.
Anger, unresolved conflict, jealously and fighting all flow out of how one is thinking. Bondage and frustration is certain where the deception is embraced that if others would just change then I could stop my negative feelings. Until the truth is understood that you are feeling today what you have been thinking, your emotions will dominate your life.
No couple will ever love each other greater than how they think about each other. You cannot fall in love with someone you never think about. Nor will you and I ever be tempted in anything that we do not think about.
If a strong marriage is desired, then one must reject the lie that your mate’s negative behavior and negative words are the reason you have negative feelings.
There is no positive change in life without some positive change in thinking. This is why it is so important that you and I feed our minds with positive materials that encourage positive change. Seeking to change your life without first changing your thinking is insanity. It cannot be done. Until you change how you are thinking, your feelings will remain the same.
Want your spouse to fall in love with you over and over again. Give your spouse reasons to think that way. You can greatly influence how your mate thinks by your words and actions.
Married couples do not grow apart without first growing apart in their thought life. Couples do not just fall out of love without first falling short in loving each other with their thoughts. The moment you entertain negative thoughts, negative feelings will follow. Negative feelings cannot come without negative thoughts. It is true that you may not be able to control what others say and do, BUT you can indeed control how you think in such circumstances.
Anger, unresolved conflict, jealously and fighting all flow out of how one is thinking. Bondage and frustration is certain where the deception is embraced that if others would just change then I could stop my negative feelings. Until the truth is understood that you are feeling today what you have been thinking, your emotions will dominate your life.
No couple will ever love each other greater than how they think about each other. You cannot fall in love with someone you never think about. Nor will you and I ever be tempted in anything that we do not think about.
If a strong marriage is desired, then one must reject the lie that your mate’s negative behavior and negative words are the reason you have negative feelings.
There is no positive change in life without some positive change in thinking. This is why it is so important that you and I feed our minds with positive materials that encourage positive change. Seeking to change your life without first changing your thinking is insanity. It cannot be done. Until you change how you are thinking, your feelings will remain the same.
Want your spouse to fall in love with you over and over again. Give your spouse reasons to think that way. You can greatly influence how your mate thinks by your words and actions.
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