ARE YOU COMPLETE AND READY AS A BRIDE BEFORE MARRIAGE:

“Not to us, O Lord, not to us, but to Your name give glory, for the sake of Your steadfast love and Your faithfulness” (Psalms 115:1)

“Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Rev 19:7 NIV

In the previous post, I said, “IF YOU WERE NOT COMPLETE AS SINGLE BEFORE MARRIAGE, YOU MIGHT NEVER BE COMPLETE IN HIM AFTER MARRIAGE”. Here is the deal, if the man is not seeing you as God’s gift and marrying you for the glory of God; if he has not tend you, cultivate you and pay the price for you, he will definitely feel empty after the marriage, while you will struggle to fit in without success. Therefore, he will always be tempted to look for another woman. Why? There was no ONENESS or COMPLETENESS in your individual relationship before marriage. He then start seeing you as a separate entity who comes to leave with him for procreation. The reason for this disposition is because you both enter into marriage while you were not ready and don’t even have a clue on what marriage is. It was after you married, your eyes were open to realities and its too late. 

The word “Complete” is from Greek artios, from the root aro, "to join”, in sense of "accurately fitted for; it expresses the final and entire attainment of what is treated, leaving nothing beyond to be desired or hoped for. Most married people have never been complete before marriage, which is why their marriages are failing. In Matthew 19, the Pharisees were questioning Jesus about divorce. He refer them back to the beginning. Genesis chapter 1, “God made them male and female”, it doesn't say “married them”. The problem is we never go back to the beginning state. God made a male by himself and made female by herself. God didn't make a married couple, Adam married a completed female. Jesus in this chapter was saying the reason marriages don't work out is because you've never been a full female, or a full male. The reason you get a divorce is because you were never complete.