SHE IS A HELPER LIKE GOD:

I woke up this morning and worshiping God for the woman He gave me. She has been helping me and I see her as the PHYSICAL HOLY SPIRIT in my life. The way she helps make me to love her more, and the more I love her, the more she help me. I feel COMPLETE and she feels FULFILL. 

 

When God created the woman for man, he made her for the purpose of being a “help meet” to her husband. The word meet is the Hebrew word neged and means ‘part opposite, counterpart, in front of.’ In other words, she is opposite to man, but fits him perfectly like a glove.

The word "help" is the Hebrew word "ezer" which means ‘helper, to come to the aid of’. The amazing thing is that it is the same Hebrew word that is used when it speaks of God being our help! Here are just a few examples:

“God is our help and shield.” (Psalm 33:20) 

“O God, thou art my help and my deliverer.” (Psalm 70:5)

“Our help is in the name of the Lord, who made heaven and earth.” (Psalm 124:8)

How wonderful to have God for our help. God is always available to help us when we cry out to Him. Are you the same kind of help to your husband? Are you always available to help him? The psalmist proclaims, “Happy is he that has the God of Jacob for his help.” If walk in what God has planned for you, you will have a happy husband! What about your husband? Does he confess, “Happy am I because my wife is my companion and help.”?

Even more amazing is that this word is first used regarding a wife, before it is used regarding God! In “the law of the first mention” the word help is given to a wife! This puts much importance on this issue. Women reveal the image of God when you help your husbands. By the way, you don’t help your husband when you seek to do his career. That undermines his manhood. You help him by making life easier to do his work, by caring for him physically and nutritionally, and by making your home a peaceful sanctuary for him.

This is the essence of the relationship with their husbands that women have got to get. Their blessing lies in there.If the man will LOVE his wife as Christ loved the Church, and the wife will HELP the man as the Holy Spirit helps the Church then there wouldn't be any problem in the marriage.