PASSIONATE KISSING & FOREPLAY BEFORE INTERCOURSE:

The Song of Solomon opens with kissing. Not a hen-peck upon the cheek, but sensuous open mouthed passionate loins stirring, erection producing kissing.

How many husbands are really covering the entire bodies of their wives with passionate kisses? How many wives do not shy away from kissing their husbands with their mouth until he gets hard erection?

"Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine" (Song 1:2).

The word that is here translated "mouth" means the inside of the mouth, the area where food is tasted, implying wet, open mouthed, hot and heavy kissing. Elsewhere in the book it says that in their kissing she discovers that "his mouth is most sweet" (Song of Solomon 5:16), and he finds that "the roof of her mouth is like the best wine" (Song of Solomon 7:9). This is “French Kissing” beyond all doubt.

And there is more, much more. The Anchor Bible says it seems likely these "explicit references to kisses ... include imitative oral activities." And The Jerusalem Bible implies not only mouth to mouth kissing, but kissing all over the body: "Your lips cover me with kisses" (Song 1:2). We are talking about all over body kissing, neck, breasts, nipples, stomach, including the sensual joy of oral stimulation of the genitals.

Husbands, when last did you cover her entire body with kisses? Is she please with your kissing skill? Is the kisses of your mouth stimulating and causing her to yearn for intercourse?

Wives, when last did you kiss his mouth, put your tongue in his ears, and cover his genital with your lips? Is your husband please with the way you kiss him? 

We are the architect of our happiness or sorrow on the marital bed. Put shyness away and bring out the king and queen in you.

FOREPLAY, THE MISSING DIMENSION IN THE MARRIAGE BED

What is Foreplay? Foreplay is define as "Mutual sexual fondling prior to sexual intercourse; an act of stimulating your spouse before ejaculation so that both of you will climax at the same time". 

The Bible shows how beautiful it is for a wife to enjoy sex with her husband. Both the wife and her husband are mandated to satisfy each other base on "Mutual Consent". If one partner is not in the mood, it will affect the other partner. 

In Song of Solomon 1: 2-16, the wife says to her husband during foreplay: “Let your lips COVER me with kisses…! How handsome you are, my lover! How you excite me”. And the husband responded with great delight: “My bride, your lips drip honey. You, my bride, are a garden; a garden locked to others. Your garden is filled with… delicious fruits”. Song of Solomon. 4: 11-13

To be honest, how many men (especially African men) are using their LIPS to COVER the entire body of their wives with kisses until their vagina is wet? How many women in Africa drip honey from their lips and their vagina is not DRY but fill with delicious fruits as they respond to the stimulation of their husbands?

These two scriptures reveals that the two lovers where romancing DEEPLY. He cover her with kisses, meaning he kissed her from head to toy. Her entire body was covered with his kisses and she said, "Honey, you excite me". Her garden (vagina) which is locked out to others and reserve only for him was filled with delicious fruits (vaginal fluid) because he spend time fondling her.
The wife's lip also drip honey as she twist her tongue in his mouth, ears and other sensitive part of his body.

It is your duty to individually create a good atmosphere that will enhance your sexual ecstasy. And you can do that through soft murmurs, encouraging noises, sounds of pleasure, approval and sensation, gasping and shivering.
As a responding wife, you must be completely comfortable undressing before your husband. Aim at provoking him deliberately. Look at him in the eyes and slowly remove each of his garments, caressing your skin as you do so. 

Men, there is a right and wrong way of getting ready for intercourse. Take it easy and slowly. Do not rush. Build up your passion before launching into the deep. (NOTE: Expect my new eBook "Biblical Eroticism", coming soon)